I am writing this at night with the intention of sending it in the morning, so I hope that my dates and times make sense. I keep building on the same post each time I don’t get a chance to post it, so it gets kind of confusing. I don’t really have any truly exciting news, but there are many nuances of life here that some of you have asked about, so this email will be mostly descriptive of the typical things that happen here. One thing I learned from my Paul (Kenyan Dad) tonight is that the porch next to my bedroom is supposedly “The porch where people go to find themselves”. I will be spending some of time out there, and will let you know if I find anything interesting.
Last night I had a tasty dinner of ugali with tilapia stew and steamed kale, and pineapple for dessert. Ugali is a starch that I believe is made of potatoes and cornmeal packed together into a cake. It is served as a circle on a platter and even cut like a cake. It is served with lots of different things like fish or meat stew, a vegetable concoction (usually kale, onions, tomatoes and a lot of spices). Ugali is a staple Kenyan food, comparable to fufu in Ghana, but not at all gooey. I would compare the texture to mashed potatoes that have been in the fridge a few days, but it falls apart more easily. No utensils are required for eating it or it’s accompaniments. The Kenyans ball it up together and kind of make a thumb-sized dish out of it and then eat whatever it is served with using that ugali-spoon. I am terrible at this, and tend to end up just dipping chunks or ugali in the stew like a gross mess. My houseparents, Mama Vicky and Paul (when he is here) sit in the two big chairs like the heads of household in the living room, and my Kenyan sister, Vicky, and I typically sit on the couch opposite them. The boys, Nick and Cliff, sometimes sit at the table in the dining room behind us, but rarely sit with us. Last night it was just me, Mama Vicky and Vicky. We talked about linguistics and weddings. The Gambas have a close family friend getting married in early August, and have invited me to come to the wedding in Nairobi with them. It should be an incredible experience.
I should back up to discuss one other thing I love about Mama Vicky. She loves anything novel, and is totally obsessed with Obama (she is related to his grandma). She regularly walks around the house wearing a woven Obama blanket as a shawl. She is also absolutely crazy about children’s plates that are sectioned for various food items. She has a plastic set of sectioned Lion King plates that she sees as very high-class. I am always served on a Lion King plate. It is perfect for ugali, as you can put the fish stew in one section, the ugali in another, and the vegetable in yet another and they will not all mix together.
So we all sit down with our plates and as Mama Vicky sits in her large chair in the very fancy living room she expertly eats the ugali easily without any mess. I look like a sloppy child compared to her – it would be appropriate for me to wear a bib and I am constantly licking drips off my hands and sometimes even my wrists, as napkins are never distributed. Mama Vicky has an ease about everything that she does. The tilapia is cooked whole with the heads and all the bones, so you have to eat it carefully. As Mama Vicky finishes each section, she casually throws the bones onto a small sidetable that she has pulled up to her chair. Only once she has finished her food does she put the bones back on her plate. I, of course, am totally neurotic in other peoples’ homes, and carefully section off a small part of my plate for bones and the skin, which I don’t like.
Mama Vicky laughed heartily as she served me the tail-ends of the fish saying that I am probably not ready to eat the heads. She was very impressed when I told her that I have eaten many a fish eyeball. She even tested my knowledge of the consistency and liked that I knew that they were hard and not good tasting. Vicky told me that when she was little, the kids were told that eating the eyeballs made you clever, so the kids would fight over them until they realized it was a trick. Mama Vicky responded that it was in fact not a trick, and as proof she stated that Obama’s family is from the rural area near Lake Victoria, so he is probably clever because he comes from generations of fish-eyeball eaters. She then calls to Agatha, the housegirl, that she would like some pineapple, indicating to Vicky and I that the argument is over, and that it is time for us to clear the plates.
I then proceeded to take my 2nd successful bucket shower. As the Gambas were eager to move into this house, they didn’t exactly get around to installing proper plumbing. I am never certain that water will come out of any given tap. In the morning to wash my face I find myself having to run down and cut through Nick’s bedroom to use the downstairs sink, as the upstairs one rarely has water in the morning. Nick is 21 and on leave from college, so he is gracious to accept my early morning disturbances. Yesterday I went in to attempt my first bucket shower, which took place in Nick’s bathroom, which has a sort of shower, but no water attached. I found it helped to wash my hair in the cold water from the sink, and as I stood with my shampoo-filled hair in the bathroom, Vicky and Nick walked in, not knowing I was already there to fill up the hot water bucket… I guess it is safe to say we have become close quite quickly!
Mama Vicky is determined to teach me how to cook Kenyan food. She doesn’t measure anything, and everything always comes out perfectly. She isn’t really good at giving directions, and often tells me to “just do that”, and I have no idea what “that” is supposed to be. I just kind of do stuff, and if I mess up or do something weird she laughs really hard and just moves on somehow around it.
Gloria, Agatha’s 2-year-old daughter, is becoming less frightened of me finally. At first the sight of me alone caused her to burst into tears and hide, she now will look at me, and even wave and say a word or two. I have been bribing her with sweets, and even got her to take a lollipop from my far-extended hand yesterday. Vicky tried to pick her up and walk close to me, which caused shrieking tears, so we still have progress to make.
Nick took me over to meet the guard dogs on Monday. Their names are Rex and Chester, and they are big and very cute, and really not frightening. Mama Vicky still claims that they are huge and will eat me up. I am hoping to get Cliff to take me out one evening when he goes to feed them. I feel bad that they are locked up all day, but they don’t seem to mind. They roam free in the yard at night and howl at the moon along with other neighborhood dogs. I wish I could take a recording, as it is very cool sounding.
I am moving quickly through Amos’ objectives for Baobab, and we already have a budget started, as well as a game plan to meet with the counselors of local schools to help Baobab grow. I created a nice presentation that Amos really liked. I designed a system for the library on Monday, which we finished implementing, working with two of my favorite students, Antony and Vienna. The trick with Baobab, is that it has the potential to take off, but doesn’t have the capacity just yet. Strategic growth is going to be incredibly important, but capital here is hard to come by, so I am working on a sensible plan to grow slowly.
While at first I think Amos was hesitant to share me with the Nina Women’s Initiative, he is now becoming eager to get me out the door as we are already barreling through his checklist in week one. Milka, the head of Nina, came to Nakuru to talk about some objectives today. We only had a few minutes to talk, but we are meeting on Friday to go out to the rural area so that I can get a sense of what is going on and what needs to be done. I will be spending at least every Monday on-site at Nina, which is when the women meet to discuss their goals and make their bags. I put some pictures of them on facebook, if you got a chance to look. There are many styles, and they’re very cool. Meredith took a supply back to the states when she left last week.
I got up at 6am to take a matatu (van-like transport vehicle that is a story all it’s own) into town to go to the gym that I just joined. Grace recommended it, and Vicky and I stopped by yesterday and I signed up for a one-month membership. It was really expensive, but running has proved impossible because of unpredictable rain and the fact that while Mama Vicky hasn’t wanted to say it, she clearly isn’t happy about the idea. Cliff, who is 16, leaves for town at 6:15 to head to school, so I got up to go into town with him, as I am still getting used to the route. It is 20ksh to ride the matatu to town, although it is 30ksh to get back. There are about 75ksh to a dollar, so it’s pretty cheap.
Matatus are actually converted transport vans that have been outfitted with seats and windows, and matatu drivers regularly decorate them very elaborately. In Nairobi they are even more elaborate, with blacklights, racy music videos on flatscreen TVs, loudspeakers and stickers praising God stuck all over. In Nakuru they are a little tamer, and it is rare to see a TV in a matatu, but this morning we had the good fortune of taking a matatu with a TV. On it was playing a very catchy set of music videos by a Kenyan (I think) choir group called Amekeni Fukeni Choir (that is what I copied down, the spelling might be a little off). I would highly recommend googling them and seeing if you can find it on youtube. The choir is dressed in Kenyan clothing, and dances sort of awkwardly through the videos (I caught about 3 on our way to town). The best part is when the dancing singers are awkwardly pasted Tim & Eric style against really random planar backdrops of famous places, like Mount Rushmore and the Sydney Opera House. Meanwhile, the matatu is completely overfilled with people and children, some unable even to sit as the seats are already beyond maximum capacity with one person per seat being relatively unheard of. The driver is driving backwards and forwards up and down uneven dirt roads just laying on the horn trying to attract as many passengers as possible. Cliff looks at me and repeats the refrain to my time here so far, “Karibu! This is Kenya!”
A few personal notes:
Mrs. Cobb: Mama Vicky is totally obsessed with the pen you gave me. She is in the middle of exams for some accounting continuing education classes, and she said to me, “If I could take my exams with that pen, I would pass all no problem!” I offered to let her use it, but I think she thought it was too precious.
The Ghana Crew: I have been in touch regularly with the flight attendant Richard from our trip. He invited me to a soccer game (err, football game) tonight, but Nairobi is too far for a weekday overnight. He is flying this weekend, but will probably come visit in Nakuru next week.
Eric: No one here believes from photos that we are related. They all LOVE the picture from my last night in the US where I am sticking out my tongue at you and you are looking at me disapprovingly.
Hayley: I had to explain the difference between ice skating and skiing to a few of my students the other day. When I described skiing, they all thought it sounded like the craziest thing and couldn’t really imagine why anyone would do such a thing. I told them that you are a racer, and they were all astonished and impressed!